I'm with you. Have any of you heard the story about the Indian and the snake he was trying to save from dying? The snake pleaded with the Indian to carry him down the mountain to the warmer climate. Otherwise, he (the snake) would die. The Indian reluctantly carried the snake out of the snow cap and into the warmer terrain below. About that time, the snake had warmed up, he turned and bit the Indian. The Indian couldn't believe the snake, he had tried to save (and had saved), would bite him. He asked the snake, "How could you do this to me after I have saved your life?" The snake replied, "You knew I was a snake when you picked me up!"
Okay, maybe this is a little too dramatic. It's still a cool story!
Oh, if my use of "Indian" offends you, substitute, "White Guy." If that offends you, substitute ,"Black Guy." If that offends you, substitute, "Blonde." Oh,oh, Have I crossed the line?